What is love? First of all, this very first Christian virtue, and discovery gift of the Holy Spirit, the very essence of life, because God is love and by name, and the actions he is the source of Love. "Love suffers long, mercy, love does not envy, love does not boast, does not proud, does not disorderly, does not look for something, does not irritate, does not think of evil, rejoices not in iniquity, but rejoices with the truth, all covers, to all trusts, all hopes all transfers "(1 Cor. 13,4-7).

As evidenced by love of one person to another is a great spiritual goodness, her kindness, compassion, forgiveness deficiencies or help in their removal, permanent physical and moral support, help, desire constant close contact and communication. In terms of psychologists, nowadays no less important is to help people to establish a link between their ability was been determined to love and relationship to ourselves.

Psychological training, held on the 20 of June 2010 by the staff of CF « Caritas Ivano-Frankivsk UGCC» for young pensioners of " Elderly Club "Nadvechir" was actually spent to help people understand how they can love themselves and are able to identify how to love themselves and others.

In particular, the training psychologist drew attention to the emotional displays of so-called love that has influenced the emotional and physical health. One way to show your love of neighbour is the use of words of support. Indeed, as the ancients said King Solomon, "unquiet heart cave man to the ground, but a good word - it straightens.

Getting and giving gifts - a visible symbol of love. Regardless of whether you bought them yourself or have their hands. In addition, our presence next to a loved one or even just friends who need to communicate and support - is not just physical presence, this ability to share joy, sore listen, understand, advice ...

Performing daily acts of service (various domestic affairs, assistance to relatives, friends, colleagues), we also find the love of those who use the fruits of our labor. And among all everyday we should not forget about equally important ways of expression of love, like hugs, kisses, handshakes. Because researches show that young kids that were on hands, were fondled and loved, are emotionally healthier than those who had long been deprived of physical contact and communication.

Participants agreed that love really is the most important feature of human life, but at the same time and it is most confusing. It is important to close and people together, people spoke "a language of love. Let even our routine: If we try to tell something about a person close to us and share this information, so to speak, in their own language, using terms known only to us, then the listener can lose his head because he does not understand what is the person speaking about.

For us it becomes worse as we are aware that they should tell their feelings, impressions, opinions to dear person, have you heard. It depresses us, we close in ourselves and alone experiencing such stress, which in turn negatively displayed on our great. So we must strive to improve their own language frontal and worry about that those whom we love to hear and understand it. Let us learn to love each other!